Re: A hindu-muslim wedding!!!
There are tons of hindu traditions that don't fall under "border line of shirk"
Culture minus the religion.
Sangeet, dhoolki, mangal suttar (may Indian muslim women wear them), the rice throwing (also in pusthun culture)
Can they do the saat pheeray without the "mantar" part. Just look at as a bon fire. :) I mean it's just a ritual.
Our weddings (pakistani) are really not the most simple versions of islamic weddings (just take a look in this forum)