Re: A guy’s take on tea trolley meetings…
The usual routine in our home was that the sister who was not being introduced served the tea, just to avoid the awkwardness. But in a few recent rishta meetings, I did serve the tea. Disclaimer: I had met the guy before and was on pretty comfortable terms with the guy, but was meeting his parents for the first time. For me, it was less a “rishta meeting” and more two families having a meal together and I actually didn’t feel self conscious.