yaar…the thing is…i understand if some people, especially women in the early years of hteir marriage (whcih make up the bulk of the posters/viewers here) would be angry and take it personally, especially when they are going through it right now or they passed through that rough patch but the pain is still there…so thats why they may take the anger out here. (If this thread was opened 3 years ago, I SO would have 
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I remember some of the things my husband said/did in the early days and yes it brought back bad feelings..whcih quickly subsided when i realized its silly to be angry over something from 3 years ago…when instead i can be angry at something he did tomorrow. 