Great thread! Women listen to this man. He speaks the truth. I can say the same for me and almost all of my friends. When ladies ask the question âWhy did he change after marriage?â Here is the answer. Pakistani guys grow up in an environment where they are beaten in to submission. âRespect your parentsâ is what weâve been brainwashed with from day1. Essentially falling in love and chosing someone on your own is ones first and only act of rebellion. Nothing sounds and feels more right than to marry the girl youâve chosen for yourself. lekin after the parents have grudgingly agreed, the sense of guilt starts to sink in. The new wife seems as beautiful as ever but it seems so much more permenant than your aging parents. They suddenly look more frail and weak and you feel guilty that youâve done them wrong. Offcourse this is not at all logical and the feminazi here will chew us for saying this but itâs true. You start to feel like your wife is an extension of yourself. If you can survive on a torn shirt if it means buying your dad/brother/mother something nice, then you start to think that your wife should also make that sacrifice 'cause she âowesâ your parents.
Lekin again as the masters have said here, you do realise that youâre being childish and itâs not just your emotions but youâre also responsible for some1 elses wellbeing. For me the wakeup call came when my dad noticed the way i was treating my wife and told me to grow up and be a man.
As happy endings go, my whole family (including the extended family) have nothing but praises for my wife. I dont even know the name of cousins that she is friends with.
Was i wrong in the beginning? Yes I was!
