A guy's perspective about love marriages ...

[Sara516]

@Pareezay

**Noone is applauding or awwww-ing at him for treating his wife bad or siding with his family more.. what’s nice about this thread is that he realized what he did wrong and worked on his marriage to make it successful. I don’t see him telling any guy to act like that, he is not justifying anything. **He’s simply writing what his experience was and for people in similar situations to have patience because if you’re not married, you wouldn’t know what you have to go through. It’s not a bed of roses or a scene out of some bollywood movie.. marriage needs alot of work, patience and dedication. And no matter how perfect you are, you’re still capable of making mistakes and having mood swings especially when you have your spouse, your family and your inlaws to please- it’s more work ESPECIALLY when you have a love marriage.

And in alot of cases, the husband suffers more than any wife, mil or sil because he’s the one caught right in the middle of all the drama. He has to listen to his mother and he has to listen to his wife. What does he do? Husbands may try all they want to keep both sides happy and at peace but some families/wives just can’t stop. Those husbands have alot of my respect.

Exactly.

Not everyone openly shares their experiences, especially men.., for many (valid) reasons…i wish there were more who could do so.