It doesn’t happen in every marriage. Real men put their families in place if they are cold to their new bahu. They treat their wife before and after marriage the same: with love and respect.
Tell me. It was easy BEFORE marriage to juggle these relationships wasn’t it? What is it about signing your name to a piece of paper that all of a sudden changes things?
Let me answer that for ya.
After nikkah you know she ain’t going anywhere so you can have your moods and she just gotta deal with it. If a woman does that, she is a *%#^% all of a sudden.
This behavior is destructive. Not cute.