A guy's perspective about love marriages ...

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@PyariCgudia

Desi parents and that dependency does throw a monkey wrench into things.

If problems came up in my marriage, it would be very difficult resisting sharing those problems with my family. My family and I are super close.

But here, we see the ex. of a woman who was patient with a husband who went through that spell, but I’m not so sure if I’d find a guy who would be patient with me, in a likewise manner, if I went through such a spell.

That’s where I get annoyed with these sort of awww’s. It’s all adorable when a guy does this sort of thing, and yet nearly all of you would go off on a girl if she posted a similar problem. There would be no “aww’s”

There would be a series of lectures of how grateful she should be someone even married her in the first place.

PCG i do agree with what you are saying, but u r not looking at the whole scenario, what he is trying to say that there are problems in every marriage and he did too, but they were strong enough as a couple to see through it, problems can be in any shape but one should not give in to the fact that this is not worth it, in this case niksik baji did not throw in the towel and instead tried to see what the real problem was and resolved it and for that NIKSIK baji u rock, it is a lesson to all of us guppies who are either newly married or are planning to get into one that “WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH,THE TOUGH SHOULD GET GOING” thats all.