Jalpari, keep up the good expectation and willingness to have a strong marriage. We all are adults and it takes sometime for 2 adults to figure out the harmony that is required to keep a marriage going. But at the end, its all worth it.
How about this you reach the point of harmony and immense compatibility and then suddenly things start falling apart from nowhere, and unexplained misery surrounds everything. You wait and be strong and still nothing improves?