no she is on vacation from gs …
yes Einstein, I know that I did wrong, that is exactly what I said in my OP. How long did it take before I realize it? I dont know. There is no one definite moment that I can point out, I was not maintaining a calendar or anything. Relationships are not about realizing things anyways. You just keep improving and becoming better and better husband, father, friend, co worker and what not. I know that 13 years from now, I will be even a better husband than I am now and will realize that there were probably few mistakes that I was making that I am not seeing in me as of now.