There’s this guy in my school who’s been annoying me a lot. I never had any direct contact with him, but I feel something MUST be done.
Okay, so this guy is named “Habib”. “Habib” was the older brother of a past friend (who i broke connection with, because of personal reasons and my older cousins going against me for being friends with him, VERY long story that will be posted if needed). They were clowns who were attracted and had bad intentions for desi girls (as most guppies would say). They were Afghans though his younger brother lied to me that he was Paki, and well, I was fooled because they spoke Urdu frequently as well.
I confronted him once to take down a picture on Facebook that was a very personal picture of my twin, 18 year old cousins whom he knew and did not like, on Facebook. I told him I would not do anything and simply asked him to take it down. He refused and began insulting me because I was “paki” which was a lame comeback to anything.
I told him to please go screw himself and blocked him as he was adding me from different accounts my cousin warned me about.
Now, here’s where it really starts. My close friend in school (Turkish, muslim, doesn’t speak urdu or hindi but knows a very small amount) daily tells me that Habib is in ‘love’ with her. you know how pedo-ish this is? This dude’s like a senior in high school, and she’s my age. She says at first, it wasn’t so annoying but later on, she saw that his Facebook profile were full of obsessive love quotes and how he would kill himself without having her. And whenever I go to his profile (she blocked him and so asks me sometimes to print out what he writes on his wall which are things about her), LOVE quotes, HATE quotes about her. I’m angry, because he even called her a b---- in several of those statuses. Also: my friend says he keeps on text messaging her and calling her home, saying that he wants to marry her. She cursed her heart out at him, but he just wouldn’t budge. She doesn’t want him. She’s tried so hard to shove him away but he keeps showing this stalkerish behavior. I told her to try blocking his number, but it wouldn’t help because he is everywhere she sees, and its hard avoiding him. He calls and says hes coming over to her house (he doesn’t know where she lives, wtf?)
My friend asks for my advice, because she is no longer friends with him anymore. Idk what to do, but I really feel like kicking his ass. She doesn’t deserve this. I love my friend, I want whats best for her. This guy is asking for a thappar on his face because honestly, this is going too far.
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Also: He doesn’t know I’m friends with the person he’s ‘in love with’. my friend does not like any of the attention anymore, at least not at first. She said she isn’t attracted to him at all. Not a tiny bit. And its not hard collecting evidence of what he’s representing stalkerish behavior: I can always print out his easily visible Facebook wall page and give it to my friend. Some of his posts go like this,
“B---- I would rather f— ya then love ya becuz b---- i never trust ya!”
“Baby you are the world to me” A TON of Bull**** like this!!
Then at one point, he tried to be cool in his statuses, (cool as in he didn’t want anyone to think a girl ‘dumped’ him or anything like that) saying stuff like, “some women aren’t worth your time, she would come crying back to me, etc…” you get what I’m saying? Some of those posts are truly entertaining sometimes,because thats what all he writes about on facebook. ![]()