A Guftogoo Between an American Muslim Man and American Muslim Woman

Ghost14 · October 1, 2013, 2:36pm

Re: A Guftogoo Between an American Muslim Man and American Muslim Woman

Ghost14 (quoting on my phone is annoying, so ill just respond like this)

I completely agree with you about rishta economics, such is life. However I disagree that it absolves men from being responsible for their superficiality. If I have a choice between two guys, and one of them is more suited to my personality, my age, my lifestyle and I choose the one who makes more money simply because of that then I am shallow.

However I guess you can say that since arrange marriages happen, they have to be shallow. You attribute points based on criteria and whoever wins numerically wins. 19 year old 10 points, can control her 8, has a well paying job 6, expects to be treated like a human being -20
I guess in a system such as this, Pakistani women should know better, but I think they /we keep hoping people will do/be better

Your hyperbole is tiring…