Re: a gud daughter in law…
We do live in a real world. You’re thinking in the way most men do when they’ve never been married. Which is fine I guess because then I cannot expect you to know better than what you’re writing.
Women can live their lives independently and be very happy. Maybe thats what is bothering you right now. That you might not be needed. That you would actually have to possess some qualities aside from a paycheck to speak for yourself. Whether you choose to believe it or not is entirely upto you. Life will not stop in this thread, no one will change their lifestyle and give up their freedom because of what ONE teeny tiny person says.
As for the inlaw bit…you still do not get it. No expectations means good and bad…meaning do not expect good or bad. I do not know how else to say it so it makes sense but this is it. If you dont get it, then Allah apko naik hidayat dein.
I would definitely consider anything you have to say if it makes sense. But your ideology lacks that in every way.
Some say that the way you are is a result of the people you come across…so maybe its not your fault you are this way. Chalo koi nahin…