a gud daughter in law....

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Re: a gud daughter in law…

@Reha

We prefer to live in the real world. The world that has people like RV and I…not in a fantasy world where the MIL and DIL are getting on like a house on fire. Life is tough and it does not hurt to make this situation easier for both parties. So having minimal expectations decreases chances of disappointment as well as many other evils. The relationship will NEVER EVER be one that can be compared to our parents. In Islam, there is no mention of the ridiculous joint family system, MIL, FIL, SIL, BIL, etc. No where do these people exist! So why shove them in a box they dont belong in??? It makes no sense. Apne maan baap ki jagah koi nahin lesakta.

Oh please. For the last few threads, all its been about is “women are dependent, mazloom and bebass creatures. they will always need a man and men are amazing and blah blah blah”. Someone has either inflated your ego to set you up or you really believe the things you write. I have an easy solution for you: dont get married to a woman.

Thats what we’re doing. The problem with men such as yourself is that you believe in backward thought…keeping a woman down will help our society function…aurat ko qaabu mein rakhna as they say. Thats what your thought process suggests. If you’re real and actually believe the things you say…its sad.

No you do not live in real world.

You think women can live their lives ‘independantly’ and be happy.

That is a fantasy ya know, not a reality. Just like not expecting good from in laws…

Bebas, Majboor or whatever is your own creation, I never said that.

If I say women need men MORE in this world then take it as it is said.. Does not mean women are majboor/lachaar/bebas.

@Gina

I went thru the entire thread, I have yet to stumble across any post that points at ‘women against women’. I think, what both are trying to say is that your inlaws can never be like your own parents. Yes, you may love and respect them the same however, you may be less patient with them and vice versa. Your parents may be more lenient, less interfering and capable of tolerating more, your inlaws may be the exact opposite.

NO girl enters a marriage armed to take panga’s with her MIL,SIL or anyone. EVERY girl enters marriage seeking peace, without discrimination or prejudice.

My friend, both DIL and MIL ARE women.

Few in laws haters do go in to marriage armed with hatred and then complain why they did not get treated like their own.

@rizla86

Even if both the woman and the in laws are not looking for trouble, disagreements happen. It’s human nature (more like women nature :p).

@NomiCA

^ you are a woman-hater…i don’t accept your opinions as valid