my brothers in pak theses days and he was visintg a gaon
well he was tellnig me that a family of 6 had a baby today and it was a girl
instead of looking at the girl the whole fmaily was crying like sm1n had died and none even looked at the girl (
and some lesser ignorant ppl keep on saying its Allah’s rehmat ITS OKAY…like they feel sorry 4 the family but hv to xcept it
like wth this is so sad and maddening!
like if tehre wsnt grls where wud guys come from?
is this normal
ps
i didnot mean to put this threa din HOME ECONOMICS so somebody can move it…pleez:D
I remember my dadi crying her eyes out every time a girl (including me) was born. She didn't want anything to do with us, but I forgive her for that because it was all part of the culture she'd been raised in.
My dad distributed mithai when his daughters were born and became the laughing stock of the town - who gives mithai for a gorl? Today, he is the proud father of 4 daughters that worship the ground he walks on because of this one act. I've lost count of the amount of times he's told us that to him his daughters are his sons.
My dadi always tells us the story about when my little sister was born, and she so happy was telling everyone. When one lady started giving her symphaties to my dadi...my dadi had never got so mad and put her straight.
Idk, where u guys get this info from, in my gaon, every1 was just happy they had a kid, couldn't care less if it was a girl or a boy but i guess it happens.
I swear to heck anyone who ever says “oh yu should have a boy” or starts crying IF/WHEN i have a girl, they will get a boatload of badduaein from me.
Grandparents/old ppl i can forgive them slightly coz thas thier culture.. but ppl nowadays, i just wish I could smack the **** out of them for being so jahil and ignorant
^ When they knew my bhabhi was pregnant, every1 said “oh it should be a boy, it’ll be a boy InshAllah” nad i said, yeah girl or boy.. and they were just when I said girl.. [they’re hvin g a boy but thas not hte point here]..My other cousin gave birht to a girl and everyone started crying..my other cousin gave birth to a girl and the baby’s phupo fainted and cried that it was a girl and she came out so ugly.. Jahil laug
i have lived in pak till i was 13 so i have some knowledge how an ordinary man thinks and i have seen when ppl get a daughter their emotions are not exactly what u would expect from parents…i mean if boy is born they give laddoos/matha-e and other sweet stuff to their neighbors and when daughter is born they are more concerned about they didn,t had a son rather then being happy for blessing that god has given them:mad: …i said it earlier and i do say it again …girl love/support their parents more then boys and i reallly hope ppl get this in their friggen head …i really can,t understand why pakistani living in west have the same attitude as pakistani back home… i mean here girls are bigger asset then boys (not that they are burden back home)…they can work .. they can study and u don,t have to pay for their dowry and they are less of an headache then boys :o …
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i feel really good about this ..
when I said girl.. 
[they’re hvin g a boy but thas not hte point here]..My other cousin gave birht to a girl and everyone started crying..my other cousin gave birth to a girl and the baby’s phupo fainted and cried that it was a girl and she came out so ugly.. Jahil laug