A girl with a past?

[pak2015]

Re: A girl with a past?

@ZainabAli94

Would you as parents of a boy allow him to marry a girl that he’s been sexually active with? The boy and girl love each other very much. The girl is very intelligent, Ivy-league educated, good-looking, well-off, from a good family, and appears to be a good person apart from the fact that she was involved with the boy. They want to get married now after knowing each other for four years.

What are the chances of such a marriage being allowed? As the boy or the girl, is there anything that can be done to make the parents agree? Thoughts?

Makes absolutely no sense. It’s not really a past when she was sexual with her current boyfriend, and both want to get married to each other. Yes it was inappropriate but that’s why boyfriend and girlfriend is discouraged becsuse the temptation is too great regardless of how religious they are. But don’t understand why it’s being made into an issue when they want to get married to each other. It would be a past if she had a sexual relationship with an ex boyfriend (a different guy)

As someone else mentioned, it actually would make 100% sense that they do marry each other not only because they were intimate with each other but because both of them want to, parents objecting is what doesn’t make sense. If parents prevent this then they’re causing both the girl and guy to end up with a past.