Re: A girl/guy situation - Comment Please
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Re: A girl/guy situation - Comment Please
Slap him hard. He just got played by a girl over the internet. He is not in love. Its his ego that is hurt. Now its time for a conquest not for a relationship according to him.
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I got it already.
Now what i am asking that "what if this guy wants thing to be serious with her" .. .. in a more serious way .. not for a night/month stands .. but a serious relationship
Re: A girl/guy situation - Comment Please
I got it already.
Now what i am asking that "what if this guy wants thing to be serious with her" .. .. in a more serious way .. not for a night/month stands .. but a serious relationship
He shud go thru therapy before going for a relationship ;-)
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perhaps whatever situation he is going through is already a therapy for him .. ^o) .. who knows. but again thats not the point. the point is .. if he really wants to .. then what should he do?
I told him then you can try .. but you should not keep your hopes high.
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why you are saying that she is not in love? if he gives her time then she might say yes to him eventually (after when she is done with her studies) ?
Zaroori to nahin that she ABSOLUTELY HAS to be in love with your friend.
I don';t think so. for the first time i have seen him posessive about "ANY" girl. he respects her a lot and i have never heard a single **** from him about her .. He doesn't even know i am discussing this thing here otherwise he would have been really pissed at me.
So? Who the hell cares if this is the first time you have seen him possessive about any girl. The reason why he is being possessive is because this girl has not surrendered to him.....he realizes that he has no control over her....that he doesn't own her. That is not necessarily love. That could be simply be wounded pride/ego and selfishness.
Look, if he truly respected this girl, then he wouldn't say things like "I'm not in love with her but I just want to be with her" and "She's not the type of girl that a guy would want to marry." Such statements don't reflect love.
On one hand, you criticize him for being a player and a jerk......and on the other hand you're defending him and almost hoping that she will fall in love with him. If this girl was someone that you knew.....let's say that she was a good friend of yours....or let's say that she was your cousin or your sister.........I doubt that you'd want her to fall in love with this guy (whom you have called a player), even if he were your bestest friend.
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why you are saying that she is not in love? if he gives her time then she might say yes to him eventually (after when she is done with her studies) ?
Im sure you're right...but ONLY if your friend was the last man on the planet. Sorry. She doesn't LOWE him.
Sometimes people talk to other people only for the sake of their egos. To feel wanted and cared about by others...its not love...its companionship or friendship. This shouldnt be confused with love. Just like men need sex, women simply need a guy to talk to sometimes. And often times, men think this is pyaar muhabbat. When its nothing of the sort.
If I were you, I would take your friend out for a nice dinner, rent a few good movies, get a tub of ice cream and a box of Kleenex.
He's just been played.
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@redvelvet; thats getting serious.
I don't know this girl. I wish i had.
Thats not the point that at I am defending this guy and I am calling him player/jerk. Whatever you are saying is right about his "love". but what i believe that he really likes this girl he is just in denial. The reason why i am saying that is I know and I have seen him when he was telling me all that.
and since he is my friend. I am wishing so that if he is interested in her then it would be good to see you together .. ..
one thing I would like to clear, that i might have portrayed his image very wrong. yes, he had girls around him .but he never went "beyond" the limits. he remained friendly and let them "assume" whatever they wanted to assume unless they hit a limit .. (proposal) .. at that time he stepped back .
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Im sure you're right...but ONLY if your friend was the last man on the planet. Sorry. She doesn't LOWE him.
Sometimes people talk to other people only for the sake of their egos. To feel wanted and cared about by others...its not love...its companionship or friendship. This shouldnt be confused with love.
If I were you, I would take your friend out for a nice dinner, rent a few good movies, get a tub of ice cream and a box of Kleenex.
He's just been played.
hmm .. @ what you explained about her .. ..
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:k: LMAO. The highlighted part is my favorite, 
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perhaps whatever situation he is going through is already a therapy for him .. ^o) .. who knows. but again thats not the point. the point is .. if he really wants to .. then what should he do?
I told him then you can try .. but you should not keep your hopes high.
It's your friend's ego which is making him behave this way. He is not in love. Stop feeling sorry for him.
So? Who the hell cares if this is the first time you have seen him possessive about any girl. The reason why he is being possessive is because this girl has not surrendered to him.....he realizes that he has no control over her....that he doesn't own her. That is not necessarily love. That could be simply be wounded pride/ego and selfishness.
Look, if he truly respected this girl, then he wouldn't say things like "I'm not in love with her but I just want to be with her" and "She's not the type of girl that a guy would want to marry." Such statements don't reflect love.
On one hand, you criticize him for being a player and a jerk......and on the other hand you're defending him and almost hoping that she will fall in love with him. If this girl was someone that you knew.....let's say that she was a good friend of yours....or let's say that she was your cousin or your sister.........I doubt that you'd want her to fall in love with this guy (whom you have called a player), even if he were your bestest friend.
Claps for this post.
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For the love of all that is holy in heaven and earth, don't do that. You want him to forget about this girl, well then take him out and hit on a few girls. He shoots, he scores. Time for the victory lap.
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@redvelvet ; he remained friendly and let them "assume" whatever they wanted to assume unless they hit a limit .. (proposal) .. at that time he stepped back .
^Oh that is very friendly of him. That doesn't sound like "leading on" at all. Not one bit. What a gem of a guy!
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Okay, jokes aside T1000...............the future does not look very bright for this "relationship"
You need to help him move on and stop encouraging him to go after her. He will be setting himself up for failure.
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i already tried .. he is stubborn .. lets see ..
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he mst b in love bcoz i guess she is gorii …n desi young generation white chamrie pe tou martaiy hainn 
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lol .. lol .. lol .. he is desi and so does she .. ..
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Oooh then he is crazy
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I dun think so .. I feel "sanwali" girls way more attractive than "gori" chamri ..
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why you are saying that she is not in love? if he gives her time then she might say yes to him eventually (after when she is done with her studies) ?
She won't man. He's in the friend zone. When people like someone, they make damn sure that they keep in touch with the other person. He needs to break contact for 7 or 8 months and then contact her, if at all.
Simple test: whenever she does stuff like that, ask your friend if he would put up with that crap from a girl he wasn't interested in?
And I'm not saying she's a bad person. She probably just considers him a friend. On the other hand, she might be keeping him around because she likes the ego boost. Sadly I know girls who string guys along like that. It's sad, for the guy (man up) and the girl (grow up).