A girl/guy situation - Comment Please

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Re: A girl/guy situation - Comment Please

@Ghost14

She won’t man. He’s in the friend zone. When people like someone, they make damn sure that they keep in touch with the other person. He needs to break contact for 7 or 8 months and then contact her, if at all.

Simple test: whenever she does stuff like that, ask your friend if he would put up with that crap from a girl he wasn’t interested in?

And I’m not saying she’s a bad person. She probably just considers him a friend. On the other hand, she might be keeping him around because she likes the ego boost. Sadly I know girls who string guys along like that. It’s sad, for the guy (man up) and the girl (grow up).

I asked him to do the same thing. but he said .. I am afraid, she would not talk to me ever then. she is very egoistic. she never forget a mistake. and this guy is afraid that if he stops talking to her .. she might start talking to someone else (since she has friends). and after 7-8 months he might not even have a chance

I had discussion with the guy last night. and he seems pretty serious. he said, even if she tell me “yes” then i am willing to wait for her till 3-4 years to get married. I asked, “but you said she is not a marriage material”. to which he replied that yeah, she is not for typical pakistani guys who goes for ghardari, khana pakana .. Idun care about these things .. .. all i care is about her.

so now he is being in the “hope” that things might turn nice. One of the thing that he was saying was that she might like me .. but .. she does not want to show anything since she doesn’t want to be in ANY relationship. she said its not just you, even if someone else would ask me to .. I will never. I dun want to add another responsibility on me .. I already have lots of things going on in my life so i want tackle them first before i end up being in a relationship.