You’re friend sounds like a d*bag … sorry.
And we’re all only hearing one side of the story.
She gave birth to HIS kids - obviously there was some attraction there, he married her.
But sadly - thats all it seems like - attraction. Now that she doesn’t look fit - he’s off to another prospect.
Marriage is so much more then bodies colliding and sweating it out.
What if this guy become paralyzed and couldn’t perform his duties - should she leave or better yet cheat?
Gross this guy - chota demaagh and yes very dense.
While nothing can justify what he did, he does have a point. She no longer satisfies his instinct, but she doesnt want a divorce either. What does she want then?
Thats not entirely true. Most guys I know exercise regularly, and are pretty conscious about how they look. Yes, I live in Karachi but the world is a global village now. Too many times guys think they are the shyt, but… never mind.
And that’s precisely the question that he should have asked her and when all avenues failed then he should have found a way out of the marriage.
(I’m sorry but threats to harm herself are not excuses because a way around that can be found by involving people.)
To remain in a relationship and use such excuses as justifications is deplorable and immature.