Who believes in love???
Ever been in love???
Ever loved and lost???
Can you love more then one person in your
lifetime???
What does love mean to you?
ummmmmmmmmm whatelse…i know this is a stupid topic but i’m bored:)
Khuda kisi ko kis par fidaa na kare…
Agar kare to Qyamat tak judaa na kare…
love is another name for living hell! yeah thats what love is! you can disagree but when you fall into this trap…you will be the first one to say that…
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Being in love is the equivalent of heaven on earth.
If you are lucky enough to find your "soul-mate" you will feel as if there is a single spirit that matches yours'. It compliments yours'.
I still find it very difficult to fully and clearly describe how it makes me feel.
ummmmmm, i guess i somewhat agree…
So, you’ve been in love??? Tell me about it.
Khuda kisi ko kis par fidaa na kare…
Agar kare to Qyamat tak judaa na kare…
Muzna bajji you seen to be very lucky…so tell , tell, tell;)
Don’t leave anything out…i want all the details
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Khuda kisi ko kis par fidaa na kare…
Agar kare to Qyamat tak judaa na kare…
Never experienced full blown love(not counting my parents of course) but people say its a complicated feeling :D
Anyway heres something for you:
"Love is:
A kiss- To a young girl
Faith- to a married woman
Hope- to an old maid"
-V. P. Skipper
i cant tell about it...its soo hurting...if itell you..than i will have to kill you and my self..because i cant live in this living hell...any more!!! samjhi app? good...
what good will it do to tell you...soon you will experience it..and dood ka dood and paani ka paani ho jaye ga.. :D
bari sad and horrific story app suno ghi to app love se hate karna shuru kar do ghi..haan..!!!
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[This message has been edited by Masoom Sheitaan (edited December 03, 2000).]
masoom u been in love? fo real? how come i don’t know bout it? hmmmmm 
how bout u come again on ch n i break u in half 
jeez…lol …aapki dadi sowwy i dono bout love i m jus replyin to masoom uncle’s sayin…n btw as far as i kno, love sometimes is painful and sometimes it like gives u lotsa happines…but it all depends…sometimes u dont’ get da person u love and dat hurts…really badly, but when u do get da person u love, u consider ur self lucky n boy is ur life like jannat or wut…ok ok btw i m not talkin from an experience…me jus sayin of wut i know or heard..or seen from ma friends…
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a) yes
b) yes
c) yes...(death did us apart)
d) doesn't seem possible right now......but u never know what the future holds
e) can't describe it....u have to be in it to feel it.....
and MASOON SHEITAN....if u fall in love with ure soulmate ....then love is nothin but roses.....no matter what happens.....u keep on goin because u believe in ure love.....no prob is big enough that u actually start thinking "well...THIS sucks"....what u do say is "oh well...it happens...no worries"
[This message has been edited by khawateen (edited December 03, 2000).]
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Originally posted by Masoom Sheitaan:
**i cant tell about it...its soo hurting...if itell you..than i will have to kill you and my self..because i cant live in this living hell...any more!!! samjhi app? good...
what good will it do to tell you...soon you will experience it..and dood ka dood and paani ka paani ho jaye ga.. :D
bari sad and horrific story app suno ghi to app love se hate karna shuru kar do ghi..haan..!!!
**
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Sorry masoom bajji, didn't mean to hurt you........i think love can be what you say,"hell", if you love someone, and don't recieve his love in return, or if you lose your love, or if the person you love, doesn't deserve you or your love......or if the person you love, you also hate equally.
That's my other question, can you hate a person you love, is it possible???????
Khuda kisi ko kis par fidaa na kare.....
Agar kare to Qyamat tak judaa na kare........
Being in Love is a blessing. Love is just a collection of feelings that you have with your partner. You share your past feelings with your soul-mate, your happiness is ur partner’s happiness, your sadness is your partner’s sadness and when you are separate, you are always thinking of your friend.
But then, exchanging blows and arguing is also a part of it and as a matter of fact it’s the sign of true love. When I had a fight, I kept thinking of my friend, didn’t sleep properly, and couldn’t realize what I did and said and what happened…
But the feelings don’t change, they are supposed to get stronger, and it’s the work of these feelings that brings the two back together.
To me, leaving and separating is as disastrous… as hell.. I ask couple of questions before I make this judgment,
Was it really that bad?
Does he/she really deserve it?
And then I start imagining what I had done before with the friend, the hilarious moments, the fun time, everything that we did together…. It’s right then when your feelings come back and you miss your partner so much, that you just discard the idea of separation.
I can never hate the person I loved.
oiiii ok ok peopel stop it with speeches already!!! godddddd! :rolleyes:
app ki..yes you can hate the person you once loved. 
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Originally posted by garam_masale:
*Being in Love is a blessing. Love is just a collection of feelings that you have with your partner. You share your past feelings with your soul-mate, your happiness is ur partner’s happiness, your sadness is your partner’s sadness and when you are separate, you are always thinking of your friend.
But then, exchanging blows and arguing is also a part of it and as a matter of fact it’s the sign of true love. When I had a fight, I kept thinking of my friend, didn’t sleep properly, and couldn’t realize what I did and said and what happened…
But the feelings don’t change, they are supposed to get stronger, and it’s the work of these feelings that brings the two back together.
To me, leaving and separating is as disastrous… as hell.. I ask couple of questions before I make this judgment,
Was it really that bad?
Does he/she really deserve it?
And then I start imagining what I had done before with the friend, the hilarious moments, the fun time, everything that we did together…. It’s right then when your feelings come back and you miss your partner so much, that you just discard the idea of separation.
I can never hate the person I loved. *
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Being in love is the greatest feeling ever, but also the scariest, cause what if you lose that person??? What if you get in a fight??? Or he gets made at you??? What if he starts hating you?? Can you live without him???? It's scary.....but it's all worth it. Even for a short time, if you have someone you can talk to, someone that makes you laugh, someone that just hearing his voice makes your worries disapear...
And your right, fights make the relationship stronger, if they make up, it teaches the people to love the person, regardless of the others differences.....it makes you not just like the person, cause he/she is nice and sweet, but like everything about the person, the good and the bad. Fights and separation from your partner or loved one teaches you the importance of that persons presence in your life, teaches you not to take them for granted.....teaches you how special they are to you or have become, in just a short period of time...
Khuda kisi ko kis par fidaa na kare.....
Agar kare to Qyamat tak judaa na kare........
Bajji sorry for the speech, just couldn’t help it…
I guess i agree with you about hating the person you once loved…but can you love the person you hate???
Or can you love and hate a person at the same time??? Love is stronger, in time it will fill over the hatred…
Khuda kisi ko kis par fidaa na kare…
Agar kare to Qyamat tak judaa na kare…
Main bajji nahi bajaa hoon..zara goore se paroo....uffffffffffff!!! and your talking about loving someone haaaaaaainnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn???????????
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Originally posted by Masoom Sheitaan:
**Main bajji nahi bajaa hoon..zara goore se paroo....uffffffffffff!!! and your talking about loving someone haaaaaaainnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn???????????
**
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Oh sorry bhai jaan:(
Just curious:D
Khuda kisi ko kis par fidaa na kare.....
Agar kare to Qyamat tak judaa na kare........
It's not as scary as it may sound. Let's keep it simple. If love is two sided, there is no way the other person can hate you…no matter how bad the fight was, there is always a come-back.
When you get involved in a fight, you have to start talking again. Tell him how you felt, tell him how bad it was, tell him what's wrong with him… staying quiet can't help both sides.
Even for a small period of time, it gets awful. A scene develops where you two just look at each other, say Salam and walk away…
Deep down in both of them, they miss each other, but they can't say anything… they should start talking!
If the love wasn't two sided, you will only feel miserable. But it gets over pretty soon.
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Originally posted by garam_masale:
**It's not as scary as it may sound. Let's keep it simple. If love is two sided, there is no way the other person can hate you…no matter how bad the fight was, there is always a come-back.
When you get involved in a fight, you have to start talking again. Tell him how you felt, tell him how bad it was, tell him what's wrong with him… staying quiet can't help both sides.
Even for a small period of time, it gets awful. A scene develops where you two just look at each other, say Salam and walk away…
Deep down in both of them, they miss each other, but they can't say anything… they should start talking!
If the love wasn't two sided, you will only feel miserable. But it gets over pretty soon. **
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You never know if it's two sided or not...and about starting to talk, well, if you think you made the mistake, if you think you were wrong, then i'd say sorry in a second and tell the person i was wrong. And so i shouldn't be the one talking, he should tell her why he feels that way? What did she do? Why he took it so seriously? Why he is mad? And so if she has made a mistake, she can realize that.
It's horrible waiting....just waiting, being stubborn, and waiting for the other person to come first, but the right thing would be to realize who made the mistake, and apologize, before the time increases so that they can't ever go back to how they were, so they can never trust each other.....
How would a person know what the other person is feeling, if he doesn't share his feelings, if he just gets mad, and pushes people away, before she gets a chance to find out what happened and why....
And you never know if it is two sided or not, or if it is love or not, only time can tell that, but if they wait too long, then what could have blossomed into a great friendship, would only be a few memories...of people who didn't even get a chance to get to know each other...
Khuda kisi ko kis par fidaa na kare.....
Agar kare to Qyamat tak judaa na kare........
If it's two sided, you will always get to hear the apology from the other side, then it's your turn to say whatever you have in your mind, whatever that was against him..
At this point, you can either accept it or just leave it... if you hate him that much.
what you can do is, understand what the person was thinking at that time, maybe he didnt' mean any of it and you took it too seriously....things like that do happen in a fight and the best way out of it is through it.
Maybe the person does realize that it's his mistake and he wants to be forgiven, maybe he feels the same way you are about him...
If he had fun with you, he must be..
Maybe he misses your voice, and everything you did with him...