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Originally posted by garam_masale:
**If it's two sided, you will always get to hear the apology from the other side, then it's your turn to say whatever you have in your mind, whatever that was against him..
At this point, you can either accept it or just leave it... if you hate him that much.
what you can do is, understand what the person was thinking at that time, maybe he didnt' mean any of it and you took it too seriously....things like that do happen in a fight and the best way out of it is through it. **
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Sometimes you hear the apology, but you don't know if he means it, or you just can't risk, being hurt like that again, but it's just so much to lose, that your heart just feels worthless, maybe she does want to forgive you, but it's hard, hard to forget, hard to trust again, hard to believe you....but all you can do is trust him now and try again, hope that you are doing the right thing, and in time i'm sure the trust will built again.....and you can never hate a person you love, love is stronger, when love comes in the hearts, it scaries away the hate, and doesn't let it anywhere near the hurt. I might be mad, but not that cruel, how can you hate, a person that cares so much.
I understood it then, and understand it now, a person gets mad, it's natural, but i can't understand how he can become so heartless, so selfish, that he'd say something like that, and where did those words come from, it might be out of anger, but they have to have some truth, how that person feels about the other person, then how can we go on?
Khuda kisi ko kis par fidaa na kare.....
Agar kare to Qyamat tak judaa na kare........
[This message has been edited by appkiamaanat (edited December 05, 2000).]