Inspired from another thread…
Do divorced women make bad wives?
Is that the general opinion/impression people have of divorcees?
That because they have been divorced, they cannot keep a home or family together?
I know it exists in our grandparents’ generation but is it still out there now?
And to what extent?
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Nopes.
My cousin got divorced and re married within 1 year.
Divorce simply means that things did not work.
Inspired from another thread...:)
Do divorced women make bad wives?
Is that the general opinion/impression people have of divorcees?
That because they have been divorced, they cannot keep a home or family together?
I know it exists in our grandparents' generation but is it still out there now?
And to what extent?
i think they are better wives as they already have this stigma of divorce ... they would be more cautious ,more compromising and could handle the relationship with more maturity...
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huh? why do you say that... because of the extra baggage?
I think they are more likely to be better wives because they have actually experienced marriage.
Seriously, some time I wonder why we send girls to school 
huh? why do you say that... because of the extra baggage?
I think they are more likely to be better wives because they have actually experienced marriage.
True that! Know of a few girls from family and friends who got divorced, Got re-married within a couple of years, being greats wives andmothers and managing well with demanding careers
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.....being divorced is not a trait and neither should it ever be "labelled" upon one.. its simply a very unfortunate case of circumstances and misguided choices....
I think they are more likely to be better wives because they have actually experienced marriage.
Agree with above statement. In my experience, most marriages fail b/c of lack of communication, and compromise. A lot of people don't date or have live-in BFs/GFs....so being married (ie. living with a man or woman and having to work as a team on a daily basis on every single thing) is something new to them. It's not like living with a room mate who irritates you....lol....in this case the lease doesn't have an expiration date on it!
A divorced man or woman has "been there done that". They already know what didn't work in their previous marriage and how difficult it is to make a marriage work. They're not walking into a situaion that they've never experienced before.
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Yes, but are they "damaged goods" now?
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unmarried or divorced, this is the last thing a woman want to listen and worse than that is "you are too immature to become a mother".
so guys can come to school too. guys k school janey ki koi tu wajah ho 
and on main post, YES there is a perception and YES it is wrong. No one can and no one should construct the opinion about the book by reading the title of looking at the first page…
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Reha don’t bother about other people’s way of thinking because nobody can change it.
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There are two types of divorced women and men
1) Who divorce and don't learn from their first marriage - doomed unfortunatley
2) Who divorce who learn from their first marriage - and become better human beings
Certain divorced women/men really do have unreal expectaions of married life and that causes the resentment, anger to cause major rifts between families. The fear I have is that they don't learn from their mistakes and their husbands mistakes to make a better choice
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divorced women make better wives because they learn from their past experiences.
bus..baat khatam. dont give a flying finger to what other people think Reha.
:)
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yes tht is what the majority of people think without hearing the full story. but It's best to ignore them and completely block them out of ur life, becoz unless u go to every tom dick an harry and explain ur situation to them there's not much u can do to change their opinions of u. women will always be blamed no matter what, and men r always seen as the victims. wankers!
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ok i think the type of people who think "divorced women are now damaged goods" or "divorced women will be easier to control cuz they're now more compromising and simply can't afford a second divorce" etc etc have the mentality most normal girls want to avoid. this type of jaahil thinking is what causes the first divorces in the first place so isn't it good that people with such sad ways of thinkin can stay the heck away and maybe the girl will have an easier time finding more open-minded, educated, and enlightened people as her future friends, aquaintances, and maybe her second in-laws and husband :)
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I have heard a guy say oh i would never marry a divorcee, even if its not her fault, because that would mean shes not a virgin, and i dont want to marry someone who isnt.....
pathetic.
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Divorced women can be better wife if she learns from her mistakes.
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^ you are saying that woman gets a divorce because she committed a few mistakes ? divorce hai to matlab uski mistake hogi is liye divorced hai ?