Re: A deviation from the “I am sad and hurt” thread…
I don’t think anyone is saying don’t talk to your spouse. But there is a BIG difference is saying to your husband what you did during your day…or about something funny that happened or even asking how HIS day was…as opposed to giving him list of things he needs to do (ie. take me here, why didn’t you do this, I need you to do this, I need money for insert want) etc.
A mutual conversation is fine…giving him a list of things that he needs to do or has not done almost daily as soon as he comes home isn’t (especially if he seems stressed or upset).