Re: A Desi Rainbow Coalition??? Hee Hee
I have always wanted to do this. The thing is, recently Ive actually voiced my intentions and got a little resistance from family. One member said that until I give birth I will never know what it means to be a real mother. I found this offensive. There are natural mothers who walk away from their own everyday. Does becoming pregnant make you a mother or does Allah swt make you a mother? I know carrying life has a beauty on its own and is incomparable but does not being a natural mother make me less of a mom?
Also, adoption is not for everyone. If someone feels they can be just and fair to both: natural adopted children - they should do it.
Additionally, if I raised all of my kids - natural and adopted - as one family then why am I leaving inheritance for only natural children? Isnt that unfair?