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Does your friend have proof of any of this aside from what the guy says in the telephone conversations? There is a very high chance he's just trying to get in bed with her.
^ This.
There are men out there who target divorced women with kids.
She needs to be extremely careful. For him to say, so fast, that he is willing to accept her and her child without even knowing her tells me he wants something from her. Either money or sex.
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I am going to tell you a story about my dewar.He was interested in a class fellow. Girl was emotional and at times it felt like she was fighting the case alone and he was standing in the background. She would approach every one in the family and she lost her self respect. Everyone in the family said that it is her fault but I never believed that. My dewar was a very clever person. He would encourage her to fight his cause and he would stand back and when his mom would be crying and yelling, he would give his shoulder very quietly and he would become nice guy. I would be fuming at that because I felt he was using her and I never thought that he truly loved her. It was infatuation. Men-greed (if there is really a work like that). Later they both got married to different people and my husband found that he went to her the night before her marriage and now appearntly there is a kid. Wow! i mean really! (To stop further questions ..... ) Girl used that as a last resort to cause a rift between him and his brothers i guess.
He doesn't care or remmeber her any more. Never heard him mention her again. They live in different coutries now. He is also married and have kids but I can;t give a name to that relationship he had before any name except for lust and that girl a loser!
don't let your friend be a loser! Love and strong love can't be gained in few months ...... no way . This is reality not a drama or movie. I myself can't understand the mindless love. I don;t think there is a thing like that in this world. This word is misunderstood. There is compation, passion, understanding, love that is not mindless, lust that is mindless.
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He was just using ur friend because he though she was an easy pray!
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Sounds like the guys I've met online. So many red flags!
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I don't understand how people who go through a divorce can move on so quickly. Divorce is a traumatizing experience for anyone involved (including the families). And especially where kids are in the picture, how can people start considering other proposals after only a few months??? I can't wrap my head around that.
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I don't understand how people who go through a divorce can move on so quickly. Divorce is a traumatizing experience for anyone involved (including the families). And especially where kids are in the picture, how can people start considering other proposals after only a few months??? I can't wrap my head around that.
Just like there are no guarantees in life...there are no rules about when its right for some people to move on. Some people need companionship. Some people just meet the right person. If you're happy then its fine. I personally didn't move on right away. But I know of several people who did and they're doing great. Divorce is not a death sentence and shouldn't be treated as such. Yes, its traumatizing and that is precisely why one should try to move past as quickly as possible. Life is short, make the best of it...you shouldn't allow speed bumps in life define who and what you are.