I really think A should not get too involved, because yeah he’s definitely falling for her (even though he may not realize it) and just by being involved, if H’s husband finds out that she’s talking to him, things could get really really bad for her and for A. Either way I think your friend A is gonna get hurt pretty badly! Just my 2 cents on the situation. (Deja Vu and stuff )
So he called me.
Asked how I felt about the conferencing.
I told him I dont think this is a great idea. He asked me why. I said that I think he is falling in love with H and that he needs to cool down and back down. He totally dismissed what I said and told me it wasnt so and that she was in a horrible situation and I should think about that aspect. I said Ill get back to him on the conference thing.
What should I do? He hasnt heard from her in two days apparently. But he had to close the phone cos she called then
i dont know..I find that ppl who try to play super hero usually end up getting hurt b/c they never intended to help the other person for the right reason..they only helped them b/c deep down, they expected that person to 'finally belong' to them. That's the reason for getting hurt.