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Living a (relativelY) materially comfortable life, but having somewhat unhappy relationships/troublesome relationships (be it spouse, in laws, own family etc)

or

living a very (relatively) uncomfortable life matierally and having a somewhat better relationship with the people around you?

I stress the “somewhat” and “relatively” part of the questions, b/c it’s really not that simple, but hopefully these two choices will come closer together rather tahn being on the polar opposite ends.

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People then Money and then Things - suze orman :)

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The middle ground !

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^ Ziyada chalak mat bano :p

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if its in cold country I will pick ppl.
If in Pakistan ac is important. hmmm or may be I would move to a cold country.

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:hehe:

stop trying to make me laugh :emmy:

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why don't want you to laugh?
daal incident ?

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money is important to have good relationships.

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what about third option .
Living a (relativelY) materially comfortable life and having a somewhat better relationship with the people around you?
It is possible and achievable.

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^ for sake of argument, those are hte two options provided.

I don't think so, Happiness is more important then some pieces of paper.

Money matters, but you can make your life heaven with out it.

But if you are not happy, who the heck care about mercedes is under me or freaking volvo ..

I think we have understood the question differently. I didn't really make choice out of the two options but money has power to change situations sometimes.

why is it only that loaded ppl talk like that...

Hareem & Njgal

yeh.. it does, and i know. But let me tell you, as i born with a ..golden spoon, and flowing with money all the time.

growing up with everything what i need, .. i just say and its done.

but you know what.. now as i am mature and become myself with my own hands.. .. i think of my childhood days or with parents.. as some kind a fake love. .you know..

its look all materialistic... .money money... business. business.... this new hotel.. this new factory.. .. i don't know.. i hate it..

who cares if i am wearing old navy or banana republic.. is it matter? .. its just a way of think..

To some extent..if your circumstances aren't good, in that u live in a not so nice house/apt, too crowded, breaking down etc...money can dramatically change a situatoin for a better.

Some people would kill for just a volvo while mercedes isn't good enough for others.

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You can buy happiness with those pieces of paper.
One friend says " Paisay main itnee taaqat hay k murday kay ooper rakh doh toh uth k kahra ho ja-a ga."
I have made this comment PG 13 but you know what I mean. :wink:

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i dont even wanna know what the original meant

Well, it's human nature to not be thankful.

be their done it… you can buy and i did.. maybe… whatever that thing walking on the 5th Avenue..

but why is it not other way around.. you know once someone told me, ..i will not name & tell relationship:

“my biggest life wish is to see that person still staying with me after the night ends”

i made this comment pg 13 but you know what i mean :wink:

You have to go through 20 years same like mine, i will ask you after that. So what ya say ?