Re: a certain type of man is ruthless
no, Arshad.
don't say this.
young adult muslims women and men must be really clear headed, when it comes to taking the decision to get married, and must not second guess each other.
it was like after all he and i decided, people who did not even see me, in his family became so anti- me, that he even took their contradictory statements as his own decision in taking back the proposal.
this is a test of that man's manhood and keeping his word and taking a stand for his happiness, if he is true to me in all that he ever said for us to be together.
it was not like Allah bid him not to go ahead with our decision to get together and marry nobly.
SO HE CANNOT BLAME ALLAH FOR THIS SHAKINESS OF HIS OWN.
rest, only Allah knows what i mean to him or meant to him.
Sounds like this person wasn't right for you anyway Dushi.