Re: a certain type of man is ruthless
***You Too Eh!..
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***I was actually refering to Dushiā¦
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***She NOT GOING TO GIVE UPā¦
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***NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENSā¦
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*Bey hisi and kum zerfee tow yeye heye - dosti bhi kerni, sathi beneye ka saaf izhar bhi kerna, aur phir apneye kadem na jama sekna aur bhag chelna. *
hed ho gaee. **
**ubb aap mujhein batein na?
*on a serious note - women are relentless when it comes to standing for someone who is dear to them. *
*for those men who can recognize and regard this feeling - good. *
for those who cannot or are always going to second guess, life has much more to offer...
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Sounds like this person wasn't right for you anyway Dushi.
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no, Arshad.
don't say this.
young adult muslims women and men must be really clear headed, when it comes to taking the decision to get married, and must not second guess each other.
it was like after all he and i decided, people who did not even see me, in his family became so anti- me, that he even took their contradictory statements as his own decision in taking back the proposal.
this is a test of that man's manhood and keeping his word and taking a stand for his happiness, if he is true to me in all that he ever said for us to be together.
it was not like Allah bid him not to go ahead with our decision to get together and marry nobly.
SO HE CANNOT BLAME ALLAH FOR THIS SHAKINESS OF HIS OWN.
rest, only Allah knows what i mean to him or meant to him.
Sounds like this person wasn't right for you anyway Dushi.
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Well to make a proposal and then to rescind it, is not a manly thing to do. I can sense that you liked this person and are hurt by him...I feel for you Dushwari.
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my luck and his luck.
i appreciate your empathy. thanks.
dushwari
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I guess you can try to communicate with him and try to clear any misunderstandings. It should be possible for two humans to have a civil and frank conversation. It may be a matter of simple misunderstanding between the two of you. If that does not help then you know what they say....if you love someone then set them free and if they come back then they are your and if they don't they never were. I know it might not help but you need to try to get things out of your system.
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^Allah bey intiha kushiyan deye acheye aur eshas mund logoon ko. amen. thanks,
dushwari
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its funny how being women we think that we can chnge the way the psychology of a man works.. believe me ive been through it too.. and i know exactly where ur coming from.. men dnt think the way we do.. and unless they want to change themselves.. forget abt it.. in the end it comes down to the fact that no matter what if someone has abused u (verbally,mentally,emotionally) b4 marriage.. i dnt even wana think of wat cud particularly happen afterwards.. theres something known as self-respect and ur own dignity n' if he cant respect u now.. theres not a chance he'll do so in a million yrs..
not every guy out there is bad.. its just a matter of how much theyre willing to do for u.. rather than u for them. remember.. relationships are a 2 way street.. **
**and id suggest u thought with a clear mind abt this proposal!!
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thanks, Mystical rain. makes sense.
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Life is chain of Khushi and Ghums.
I think Life is a continuous struggling process ...One has to struggle in one way or another.everyone has to suffer in one way or another.If One is struggling in relationships , thn other in future stuff.there are ups adn downs in life.One should never be hopeless. One is still there in amercia & still not happy , the other is really trying hard to be there , One is frustrated tht He is really young and not married yet , Others who r married think that tht's worst thing happened in their's life.
I think that to have a good Life partner is a really great blessing of Allah ALmighty.And Supposed if u havn t got one yet , u will get one in future.but the best thing that never expects anything from others .may be wooh app ki wife yaa husband hee kyuun na hoo. You will always be very happy If u r on the giving.Always do something for others and never expects anything ..tht she will do that or he will do tht for me.And last but not the least thing ...forget about bad things , Do remember good things , Khush Rahoo , Mehnat Karooh , Try to achieve ur goals.
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^ thanks, tb.
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what do you mean , it was?
dushwari
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am married to one......:(
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All da post ive seen from you so far are filled with hatred towards men...wtf yo....if u had bad experience in a realtionship/marriage, that doesn't mean that all men are like dat.
lol...
yo calm down yo!! she's just venting.. and perhaps hating herself for doing things she now thinks she shouldn't have..
no rishta b4 marraige. claim him once u married to him. seems like you are running behind shadows.
spot on.. no matter how much u love him/ he loves u, before marriage he always has the option of walking off on you w/o feeling like he owes you anything. After ure married, uve rights, and love just COMES!