Re: A case of blackmail
and the tone of the OP....how the thread is titled and subsequent 'leniency'.... like 'if she has realised..its ok'.........
haha. That's so true. It is a case of blackmail and not of cheating since there is a girl involved!
For the GSers there are multiple cases: Case of cheating, case of blackmail, case of lying, case of a fling gone bad, case of leading two men on, and so on and so forth.
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^^^well just count how many threads have been started by men speaking about any problems or issues they might be dealing with. close to none, women never get a chance to see how men see certain issues, we never get to see how men are handling them or what's in that male mind of yours. pour your heart out guys and then maybe life1 won't be so one sided. :p
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Hey, why can't women just deal with things quietly? Why make a huge production out of everything? : p
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whether she tells or not, this incident should be a lesson for lifetime.
Woh yeh ke ... Aurat ko daman bacha ke chalna perta hai.
Baqol shayir ke, Rakh qadam phoonk phoonk ker Nada'n !
Re: A case of blackmail
whether she tells or not, this incident should be a lesson for lifetime.
Woh yeh ke ... Aurat ko daman bacha ke chalna perta hai.
Baqol shayir ke, Rakh qadam phoonk phoonk ker Nada'n !
nokri to becharay mard ki gai?? the guy lost his job,his reputation (since he was married)..
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You’re mixing threads - that’s the other thread where the girl can’t forgive herself for having a platonic friendship with a married man. Get your scandals straight 
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[and the monsoon weddings's soundtrack plays in the background]
no seriously, if i were the guy i wouldn't give her a second chance.
Since when do relationships succeed on lies??
exactly.
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yea…my bad 
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This is literally the storyline of a drama called malaal, it was actually a good drama as well :)
Not much she can do, she should come clean before the fiancee finds out from someone else since that will just make it worst, other than that she just needs to man up and face the music now.
Re: A case of blackmail
If her "filling" has nothing to with physical relationship then she has nothing to worry, all she need to do tell the fiancée at some point of time (only tweak with timing of relationship by making it a distant past).
Islamically speaking, if she is truly remorseful then she has not obligation to confess voluntarily (In fact it is sin to share your sins with someone else).
In any case all she need to do is Istaghfar and seek Allah's forgiveness.