Re: A better wife?
There are feminists who are extremists. I think it would be fair to characterize them as feminazis. But this is off topic, and I don’t want to start ranting on feminism.
I think the point I made above stands: women initiate the majority of divorces (I think it’s around 70%) and abuse, and cheating are not cited as the reasons. It’s usually a woman wanting to “find herself” and other emotional issues (yes I’m using the term again because it applies, read my link above). Women also stand to profit from divorce.
I would venture a guess and say that in a lot of these divorces, a little patience and willingness to work through the issue (from both sides) could have saved the marriage. In situations without abuse, and perhaps out of character cheating, I think she would be a “better” wife.
In cases of abuse, especially if it’s serious, I think a divorce is absolutely warranted.