Tell me which country has respected democracy when it is about a state breaking away from it?? At the most you'll find a handful of cases. You need to think from the India's point of view to understand that.
It's a free world, but only for namesake; there has always been a price for freedom and always will be.
My heart would tell me to give kashmiris their independence, but my mind wont. And a country cannot be governed by heart. Do you agree with this?
Assuming that a pro independence government comes to power in kashmir after the vote rigging has stopped, India will still not give kashmir independence, it's not possible.
About the Indian policies being flawed, I agree with that. About India being insecure, any country would be; pakistan much more. When religion is being used as a criteria to mark states and countries (in a country like India), no stable and peaceful solution is possible; you only have to look at your Pakistani neighbors. I would love India to win over kashmiris' hearts but I don't know if that's possible with the religion playing it's part.
I still get confused sometimes thinking about why pakistan failed or is failing. Is it because it was created on the basis of religion or was it because that particular religion was Islam, **majority **of the followers of which are so blinded by their gurus that they have only disrespect for other religions and have stopped using their god given brains for making decisions.
lol, no country will want to let what it conceives a 'part' of it go, but time and the ground realities wont allow it to go any other way, just look at Kosovo as the newest example, and surprise surprise, India doesn't recognise it, as doing so will legitimise the Kashmiri freedom struggle. America, EU, UK all have recognised Kosovo.
All I will say is that, Kashmir need not be independent, it can work within India, but India doesnt want it to work, Kashmir people themselves are not a fighting people, they just want to be left alone, and India wont even give them that!
Seems like India is waiting for Kashmiris to pop the lid, that is when you will see Kashmiri militants on the Delhi RTS or parliament building or busy shopping areas. And that is when it will be too late for India to do anything, it will probably reply with a surge in the valley, which will just gain more international recognition for the self determination of the people of Kashmir and independence will be imminent.
Pakistan isn't failing, they're doing fine, they have kept on par with a much larger, wealthier and resourceful India. Up until 1991, India was close to bankruptcy just as Pakistan was, both were in a mess. Pakistan has been falling behind India though 1995 onwards, I think.