60 Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love, —Guaranteed—

[waterfall99]

Re: 60 Ways To Keep Your Wife’s Love, —Guaranteed—

^ No, why?:aq:

[MIAinVA]

Wow!! Wayyyyy too long a list… not too realistic.
I would be happy with the following:

**16- Show your appreciation to her **
**21- Get rid of the same old routine once in a while, scrub the rust. **
**28- Help her around household chores just like the prophet (saw) did. **
**38- Don’t hold grudges. Deal with the littlest matters and don’t ignore them, it will build up and will create a wall between you and your wife. **
**40- Respect her thinking; her thinking strengthens you. **

These, IMO, are guaranteed to make a wife happy.

[Gina]

NO thank yew to ‘warm’ seats!

Shukria!

[MIAinVA]

hmmm… maybe I’d appreciate it IF its winter and the central heating is broken… .

[Rainbow09]

@waterfall99

**6- Move out of your way for her, when she’s coming to sit get up and let her sit on your seat tell her: ‘here honey sit I warmed up the seat for you’ **

Are you serious?!

[xjatti2khanx]

Re: 60 Ways To Keep Your Wife’s Love, —Guaranteed—

thanx for sharing, im defo showing dis to my hubby!!!

[aahmed]

Re: 60 Ways To Keep Your Wife’s Love, —Guaranteed—

notice how it’s always the naive young unmarried ones that post this nonsense.

For the record, i warm the seat for my wife all the time, i also warm up the house, the bed, and the car. My wife lives in a very warm but stinky environment.

[Pseudonymous]

@Gaia

**6- Move out of your way for her, when she’s coming to sit get up and let her sit on your seat tell her: ‘here honey sit I warmed up the seat for you’ **

i HATE when the seat is warm..it makes me so mad.

[Pseudonymous]

@aahmed

notice how it’s always the naive young unmarried ones that post this nonsense.

For the record, i warm the seat for my wife all the time, i also warm up the house, the bed, and the car. My wife lives in a very warm but stinky environment.

firstly, it’s pretty mean to call this, “nonsense”

secondly, ew.

[PakiHaya]

It’s sad that we live in a world where this has been called “nonsense”..

Although I’ll agree it’s not very realistic to expect a guy to do all that, but they’re certainly nice thoughts MashAllah and I wish all you lovely girls hubbies who’ll do things like this for you and I wish the same for the guys, the other way 'round!

[sheyn]

@waterfall99

**6- Move out of your way for her, when she’s coming to sit get up and let her sit on your seat tell her: ‘here honey sit I warmed up the seat for you’ **

**13- Surprise her secretly. Ex: Bring her a watermelon when it’s not the season of watermelons. Pick and choose in surprising her, be an artist in surprising her pleasantly **

**36- Look at her as a precious pearl, treat her and take care of her like a precious pearl **

**37- Speaking of pearlsà show her YOUR pearlsà SMILE! . Don’t put your smile out-of-service when you reach home! Don’t be rigid, smiling is Sadaqah **

**44- Complement her!-give her the gifts of the tongues- **

[oreocookie]

Re: 60 Ways To Keep Your Wife’s Love, —Guaranteed—

some of them are corny (watermelons??) but the message behind them is commendable. it all boils down to respect and kindness.

[zobia]

Re: 60 Ways To Keep Your Wife’s Love, —Guaranteed—

as long as your husband respects you, and your thinking you will have a satisfactory life (well that is what i think cuz to be honest to much love also makes one suffocate, and u also wana taste other bitter tastes of life).

…and these 60 pointers are too much to ask.

[Jaanwar]

@aahmed

notice how it’s always the naive young unmarried ones that post this nonsense.

For the record, i warm the seat for my wife all the time, i also warm up the house, the bed, and the car. My wife lives in a very warm but stinky environment.

Couldn’t have put it better! :k:

[waterfall99]

@aahmed

notice how it’s always the naive young unmarried ones that post this nonsense.

For the record, i warm the seat for my wife all the time, i also warm up the house, the bed, and the car. My wife lives in a very warm but stinky environment.

Excuse me!I just came across them,so posted,thinking they might help some,and i myself do not really care for any of those points written!

[hareem01]

@waterfall99

**1- Make her feel secure- don’t joke about divorcing her, this will put a hole in your marriage. **

**2- Always greet her whenever you arrive **

**3- Your wife is a fragile vessel so take care of her- In this vessel there is a lot of goodness so treat her in a gentle manner. **

**4- Advice her in privacy and the best timing. Don’t advice her in the presence of others, it can be a type of humility **

**5- Be generous with her **

**6- Move out of your way for her, when she’s coming to sit get up and let her sit on your seat tell her: ‘here honey sit I warmed up the seat for you’ **

**7- Avoid anger. **

**8- Look good for her and smell great. **

**9- Don’t be rigid, you will be broken- just because you are a man doesn’t mean you have to be harsh hearted **

**10- Be a good listener **

**11- Say yes for flattering and no for arguing. **

**12- Call your wife with the best names she likes to hear. i.e: the prophet (SAW) used to call Aisha- A’ish! **

**13- Surprise her secretly. Ex: Bring her a watermelon when it’s not the season of watermelons. Pick and choose in surprising her, be an artist in surprising her pleasantly **

**14- Preserve the tongue **

**15- Accept her shortcomings/ everyone has one **

**16- Show your appreciation to her **

**17- Encourage her to be in touch with her kin relations **

**18- Speak topics of her interest. **

**19- Speak of her goodness in the presence of others **

**20- Shower her with gifts. The prophet (saw) said: give gifts and you’ll love each other’ MML It’s doesn’t matter how cheap or expensive the gift is, it’s the thought that counts! **

**21- Get rid of the same old routine once in a while, scrub the rust. Ex: Buy her ticket to a vacation cruise or something that she will enjoy. **

**22- Think good of her- husn althan- **

**23- Ignore some of the words/actions you don’t like **

**24- Add a drop of patience- It can go a long way- i.e: at her time of pregnancy, menses…etc **

**25- Expect and respect her jealousy. **

**26- Be humble **

**27- Don’t put a price on her happiness. **

**28- Help her around household chores just like the prophet (saw) did. **

**29- You can’t force her to love her in laws, but help her respect and love your parents. **

**30- Show her that she is an ideal wife; each and every wife is an ideal wife in many ways, so make her feel that. **

**31- Make dua’a for her and always remember her in your dua’as **

**32- Leave her past to Allah swt **

**33- Don’t show her that you are doing favors by doing your duties **

**34- ****aan/Satan is your enemy NOT your wife! **

**35- When eating, don’t only feed yourself, feed her TOO! - Not only does it go to the stomach but to the heart too. **

**36- Look at her as a precious pearl, treat her and take care of her like a precious pearl **

**37- Speaking of pearlsà show her YOUR pearlsà SMILE! . Don’t put your smile out-of-service when you reach home! Don’t be rigid, smiling is Sadaqah **

**38- Don’t hold grudges. Deal with the littlest matters and don’t ignore them, it will build up and will create a wall between you and your wife. **

**39- Avoid being harsh hearted and moody. **

**40- Respect her thinking; her thinking strengthens you. **

**41- Help her discover/develop her skills and her success within **

**42- Respect the boundaries of the intimate relationship- it’s a fragile matter. **

**43- Help her with the children; it’s not only her job it’s yours too! **

**44- Complement her!-give her the gifts of the tongues- **

**45- Don’t be a stranger to her meals, know your wife’s meals, and eat her food. **

**46- Let her know when you are traveling don’t just disappear, and also let her know about your arrival. **

**47- When arguments arise, deal with it and don’t run away from it. **

**48- Don’t share your home secrets with your friends. Keep your privacy, and don’t make it a garage sale. **

**49- Encourage each other to worship/obey Allah swt – Go for umrah together, listen to a lecture/recitation.- **

**50- Engrave her rights in your heart and in your conscious **

**51- Treat her with kindness through happiness and sorrow **

**52- Don’t jump on your wife like a ball!, in fact polish your love with many kisses- A kiss is a messenger- alqubulah rasool **

**53- When disputes happen between you and your wife, don’t go and share it with the whole world.-don’t leave your wounds open for the germs- **

**54- Show her that you care for her health. **

**55- Don’t think that you are right all the time!-No one Is perfect but the prophet (saw)- **

**56- Share you happiness and sorrow with her. **

**57- Have mercy on her. **

**58- Be the shoulder she can lean on! **

**59- Accept her as is, she’s a bent rib so don’t try to straighten it. **

***Side note: A dear friend once said: “a bent rib cannot be straightened, and in fact the beauty of it lies within its curve!” **

60- Have good intentions for your wife - alniyaatu atayibaah-

Source: Sh. Ahmed Shehab’s lecture

Thanks for sharing. There’s a hadith that suggests a man to smile each time he looks at his wife.

[diwana]

Re: 60 Ways To Keep Your Wife’s Love, —Guaranteed—

One thread says 40 points to make a man happy, other says it takes 60 points to make her love a man!

What does this prove?

BTW: It takes only a few to make a man happy…