There is the guy I know here, very nice gentleman, divorced at 45, has 3 grown up kids. Pakistani, was married to a local here who left him after many many years of marriage.
Anyway, he recently got remarried to a 21 year old girl from the village. She isn't here yet but this guy tells me she was never married before and he too is surpised that her parents let her marry him with all his baggage...
These days many parents want to get "rid" of their girls as they are a burden for them. :( I hate that mentality. Nothing wrong with that guy but really if she is a regular girl, why not go for a regular guy? And he isn't rich or anything. Just a US citizen.
Oh I thought we were only talking about the guys in 40's who were never married.
If the guy was married and especially if he has kids from last marriage, he should act his age and look for a partner within 5-6 yrs of his age. A guy with grownup kids marrying a 21 yrs old girl is pathetic.