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Why is it yuck? Isnt it better than roaming wid girlfriends or cheating.
^Any-way 'Deela', granted you somewhat addressed the equality in financial provisions issue.
So tell us how would you sort the emotional issues raised earlier??
Re: 4 Wives
^ Tum phir agaye?
What's the final verdict? Is he marrying 4 women on being loyal to 1?
Miss Gina I think young guys cannot handle 4 wives.
However, ones they are 60ish - they have money, and LOADS of it, to be able to handle 4 wives.
I don’t think anyone here is 60ish. So why bother about thinking you can afford 4 wives?
remember all you “immaturities” : afford DOES NOT mean having s%x
Re: 4 Wives
How is this going to be taken care of financially? its really not a joke to support 4 women, each with their own needs, and kids? I understand Islam allows for more then one wife, but also the person should be sensible to realize that just because Islam allows it doesn't mean it has to be done. I mean if you don't have enough to support yourself, then is it worth it to put these women in a worse position financially?
^ 
Thank you sooo much for the summary!
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Clearly you people have limited thinking capabilities.
NJ-Masti with the funniest one- over 60 millionaire- ye right he cud handle 4 if he cud handle himself first.
And arnt you people aware of the many poverty striken families in pak.
Its not difficult for even the average earner to provide basic housing and neccesities for wives from such backgrounds.
And there are many other needy and desperate such girls in pak as we know. Some families are living on petty amounts like $2 a day.
I think its sensible to assume the financial side is sorted- if you marry back home.
'Emotional Isuues'- Well Nutwer pal. I ask you how can you absolutely fairly balance 'Emotions'.
I think giving equal time to each wife would suffice - as the Prophet (pbuh) did.
Thank you. Thank you.
I am just wondering now - all you guys who are FOR 4 wives - is it a charity act?
Like pitifully marring someone? to be dutiful… for “Godliness” - meaning just like Miss Universe’s mantra would be I am doing this for “charity” - wherein it would not matter to you if one wife was fat, one kali, one blind, and last deaf? or any other combo. You’d still accept? (just made it sound like a fast food place) :rolling my eyes:
If yes then a 
Deela will never give up, I guess.
Has your hunt for Wife # 1 begun yet, Deela?
NJ-Masti
No babes - Its not all charity- What world u living in.
But improving anybodies status automatically counts as charity.
I would expect features from each wife - as they would expect from me. Its both sided.
Ive got the financial sorted. And looks like the emotional too.
People can still post feedbacks.
Mia- I might even cancel *that* wife 1.
Waisey I would still like to know what EVERY lady is against polygamy. Girls hardly mind pre-marriage Husbands naughtiness then why post-marriage so much.
Which do you prefer if i a guy has to do one:!!
Duhhh!!! Girls DO mind the pre-marriage ‘naughtiness’ as you call it, we just kind of stay quiet cuz its in the past and anyone can make mistakes you know.
What girl would want to share her husband with someone else… not just emotionally, but physically too… PLEASE!!! NO WAY!
And why are you so hung up on the cheaters… not everyone cheats on their wives… tumhaara uthnaa bethnaa ghlalat kism kay logon mein hai bhai 