I decided I want to marry 4 women. Now its legal so no bashing.
And I need advices from the genuine guppans.
[And …Dont worry about the justness in financial matters (trust me i got this one sorted)]
I have established I have a strong need for more than one women in my life.
And I also at the same time dont wish to restrict my goodness to the many needy paki ladies.
Now What I ask is that would a genuine pakistani born and educated lady, (i.e one of you guppans) knowing I am a sincere, loving, providing guy to her… mind me planning on a similar extra few. Seriously
I maintain that i would still not love any less the first wife.
Ok kind and honest commments very much valued and requested! Yes all of you women…
You all bashed me on the before marriage- now im asking for the legal and after marriage - so comment away.
I decided I want to marry 4 women. Now its legal so no bashing.
[And ......Dont worry about the justness in financial matters (trust me i got this one sorted)]
I have established I have a strong need for more than one women in my life.
And I also at the same time dont wish to restrict my goodness to the many needy paki ladies.
Now What I ask is that would a genuine pakistani born and educated lady, (i.e one of you guppans) knowing I am a sincere, loving, providing guy to her...... mind me planning on a similar extra few. Seriously
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Unless you are a woman your self, this thread is not even remotely interesting.
ok so I have very serious doubts about you and your "needs". BUT...I can direct you to the ladies you so desire, those who you would be blessed in Islaam to marry and care for.
First, theres the widow who has 3 children. Her husband died in a car accident and she cannot feed these poor little kids on her own. They are hyperactive and angry because they are too young to understand where their Abu went.
Second, theres a lady whose husband divorced her and because of that she is outcast and unable to provide for herself. Her family wont care for her because of the shame of her divorce and she is uneducated and unable to find work. She's also about 75 pounds overweight because she eats due to depression.
Third, theres the woman who never married because no one wanted her. She is unattractive and has a bad disposition so every rishta that was presented to her said no and now she's too old for anyone to be interested.
ok so I have very serious doubts about you and your "needs". BUT...I can direct you to the ladies you so desire, those who you would be blessed in Islaam to marry and care for.
First, theres the widow who has 3 children. Her husband died in a car accident and she cannot feed these poor little kids on her own. They are hyperactive and angry because they are too young to understand where their Abu went.
Second, theres a lady whose husband divorced her and because of that she is outcast and unable to provide for herself. Her family wont care for her because of the shame of her divorce and she is uneducated and unable to find work. She's also about 75 pounds overweight because she eats due to depression.
Third, theres the woman who never married because no one wanted her. She is unattractive and has a bad disposition so every rishta that was presented to her said no and now she's too old for anyone to be interested.
Can u afford 4 houses, 4 cars (if no.1 has one the others have the right to one as well, same merc, bmw, whatever no.1 has), 4 sets of bills, 4 sets of kids to pay for?? If u can then go ahead.. (oh, and be prepared for ur kids to turn on u when ur not around for them and they see their Mum unhappy, I've seen out of a family of 4 kids, 3 of them disowned their dad, not exactly a happy setup for anyone concerned)...
Unless u have the finances of a Saudi prince or an arms dealer ur prob going to struggle..
Oh, and most attractive or educated women wouldn't settle for being wife no.2 unless ur one of the above and/or devastatingly handsome, what woman would want a part-time husband when they can have a full-time one unless it came with major perks (and even then I reckon it would be rare)..
Btw there are Islamic websites where men can advertise for 'extra' wives, bear in mind tho that whilst a man doesn't require permission from his first wife to marry secret marriages areharam.
ok so I have very serious doubts about you and your "needs". BUT...I can direct you to the ladies you so desire, those who you would be blessed in Islaam to marry and care for.
First, theres the widow who has 3 children. Her husband died in a car accident and she cannot feed these poor little kids on her own. They are hyperactive and angry because they are too young to understand where their Abu went.
Second, theres a lady whose husband divorced her and because of that she is outcast and unable to provide for herself. Her family wont care for her because of the shame of her divorce and she is uneducated and unable to find work. She's also about 75 pounds overweight because she eats due to depression.
Third, theres the woman who never married because no one wanted her. She is unattractive and has a bad disposition so every rishta that was presented to her said no and now she's too old for anyone to be interested.
I have established I have a strong need for more than one women in my life.
And I also at the same time dont wish to restrict my goodness to the many needy paki ladies.
Seriously, is this guy for real?
Lets ignore him, hopefully he will get the hint and go away.
Wish you good luck my friend. If you truly desire this from your heart and think you can contribute positively in the society and fullfill their rights..there should be no shame!.
Btw i heard the case where this paki guy went to syria to get married..and of course..he had permission from his first wife who is also an arab. Arab women generally can get the groove on with you..but i doubt if desi girl can. The minute desi girl is with you..it is as if she has purchased you and therefore OWN you with everything you are. Btw how about Pakistan? there are needy women out there who might be willing to pitch in with you in this Jihad. Bless you brother..
Wish you good luck my friend. If you truly desire this from your heart and think you can contribute positively in the society and fullfill their rights..there should be no shame!.
Btw i heard the case where this paki guy went to syria to get married..and of course..he had permission from his first wife who is also an arab. Arab women generally can get the groove on with you..but i doubt if desi girl can. The minute desi girl is with you..it is as if she has purchased you and therefore OWN you with everything you are. Btw how about Pakistan? there are needy women out there who might be willing to pitch in with you in this Jihad. Bless you brother..
Desi girls dont even want their SIL and MIL in the picture, let alone another wife...Husband's life is a no woman's land once she enters
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