I read on another forum once a man wanted a second wife but didn't want the first to leave him so deliberately waited till she got pregnant so she'd be 'trapped' then went onto marry wife no.2, how messed up is that???
Deeba..........Tum "Dheelay" ko ideas de rahi ho???? LOL :)
Can you imagine how the CHILDREN of the multiple wives would feel? The children of one wife might think, "Oh dad loves his first cherished wife MORE than our mom." It has the potential to get really missy.
A person who hasn't had even one wife.......and assumes he can manage being "fair" to all of them.............is thinking chiefly with the lower head........not the one on his shoulders.