4 Wives

[Kinzz]

@Deela

Yeh that was my intention-

Thats why IM asking these guppans- would they be alright with it.

Look we have to admit all men have poly attractions do get attracted.
I just want to be honest about mine.

RD pls stop belittling me by impling I am a kid in this matter since have no xperience.—Its not nesscesery to have it.
Besides this is only a suggestion of a way to handle my future.
Besides, dont think your so smart. Fairness can still be acehived without each party having equal materialistic emotional allocations. Some peolpe are desperate out there and for them some kind of security and marriage would be better than none at all- and to them being a slightly less important wife than another would be acceptable.
It is well-known that Nabi-Pak also had a favourite wife-who was H.Aisha which she was noticebly proud of.

And multiple wives was the sunnath of Nabi-Pak and many of his sahabies and older Prophets.
Are you saying to me all these people went agsint the koran?
The koran merely encourages men to have one wife because it is naturally harder for them to manage and be fairer to more.
But Inspite do you not still not commonly see men with more 2 or more wives- basically if they can manage them they they can do so- infact its an additional and great sawaab marrying and sustaining a women.

and God also gives 70 in heaven so

OK away from RV and back to life1:

PLS you other fair guppan ladies i also need your honest opinions. But pls also keep in mind some understanding and respect of the opposite sex.

okay–i dnt mind bashing if dats what it will be.

nobody can help you..untill u make your and decide what exactly u want?? so first u have to decide what u want thn come here and ask for advice…cos how we know what going on in your mind? so how could we know and tell u to do this or that? we can only advice you but first make sure what u want?