RedVelvet why is it you always freak out on my 'catchy' threads. Why do you have to always have to act as a female rep. Have the other guppans not got thier own minds to speak from. So let them. If you dislike my threads go somewhere else; go on a holiday to 'gup-shup cafe' for a week :)
There are a lot of real women as object percievers on this forum whose threads you do dont likewise argue against, but on the contrary seem to have a pretty good time indulging in.
So stop your hypocrisy- pls go and fix the real women object perceptors out here before starting on my innocent topics.
Watch it this time - kindly.
Deela,
Go read my post above. Yes, I KNOW it's long. But go read it again. It's not a rude post. I haven't insulted you. I addressed your issue from various angles: psychological, human nature, Islamic, and your idea of a "cherished" wife.
I did make a sarcastic comment about trolling......but everything else was discussed seriously without being rude. So why are you whining/getting defensive?
Who said I was the "voice" or "representative" of Guppans? I never thought of myself that way. I wouldn't even want the role. In a way, you're insulting the "Guppans" by implying that I'm preventing them from speaking their minds. The women on this forum are very intelligent.....and are responding to your thread out of their own accord...and not due to any pressure from me. I don't even question their ability to speak their mind....................I'm baffled as to why YOU would assume that they can't speak their mind. See...Deela.....before you even decide to marry ONE woman......develop some respect for women and understand that they are more than just their bodies.....they are strong enough to voice an intelligent opinion independently.