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And referring me to' thinking form my lower-head' when did i say that i intend to hump those ones and then make an excuse to rid of them.
Before making bold claims from relgion do more research. You clearly have not.
*You have issues with comprehensiong. I NEVER said that you planned to hump your wives and make excuses to get rid of them. What I was trying to say is that even if one plans to KEEP all of his multiple wives material goods can't compensate for emotional security. *
And I say you are obsessed with my threads because i dont see you writing such 'essays; anywhere else on anybodies forums. People are out here on life with eually trivial issues but like/need to discuss them without one long lecture from one wise individual acting like to close the thread.
WRONG. Khush fahmi.....Khush fahmi. Don't flatter yourself. I have written my "essays" on other people's threads. In fact, I wrote one of my "essays" on Zazzy's thread yesterday. I don't make it a mission to type long posts. The length of my posts depends on the issue....and my own personal sense of thoroughness. Some issues are complex and can be discussed with many examples and from many angles....and so the post for these issues can be longer.
IM no kid. Dont try to insult me into staying on the 'puritan or wussy side' get-it?I am a Man, I know what Im doing*.*
Have I said that you weren't a man in this this thread? I find it strange that you have to "ASSERT" that you're a man. So are you implying that those who choose to stay within their limits and have boundaries are "puritan" or "wussy"?????
It does not have to be neccesery I am in a problem right now in order to collect peoples opnions. Some people like to be PROACTIVE, by watching others mistakes.
*Come on now.....you told me not to think of you as a "wussy" and that you are a "MAN". Okay.....so be man enough to say that the quote u typed in "red" refers to me. LOL. **Your arguments are all about how you are the "victim" who is being "criticized" by the women. **BUT YOU STILL HAVEN'T COUNTERED OUR VALID ARGUMENTS ABOUT THE POTENTIALLY SERIOUS NEGATIVE CONFLICTS OF POLYGAMY. *
We know polygamy is halal and we're discussing its potential negative consequences. Also, please don't give us religious references on the nature of men (we know the sexual urges are stronger). Please don't give us religious references on the "halalness" of polygamy. We already know that. Please don't give us examples of how other men are worse than you. These are all defensive arguments. Instead......why don't you answer our questions on how you plan to address the emotional insecurity issues that will result in your multiple wives and multiple children due to polygamy?
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