Ditto.
Absolutely not...shall not...will not...cannot...share a man with another woman. There are plenty to go around now...why does she want mine?
How would I raise a child in that home? What is my child going to call this other wife? Aunty Ji? Khala Jaan?
There has to be more to this 4-wives rule than meets the eye. It seems as if marrying a second time while the first wife is still there - especially without her consent - cannot do anything but cause trouble.
How can this bring any good?
Where is the reward in hurting your spouse and making her feel like less of a woman by marrying again and bringing that wife in her home?
Mirch, these questions are not directed at you necessarily but if you have anything to offer, feel free to.