TLK where there is man...there is sabr...and sabr is not an alien concept... self restraint teaches you to NOT satisfy every erec****. otherwise there is no difference between a man and janwar/haiwan.
Dekhain Ji, I agree with you in principle. But you cannot deny the fact that Islam allows men to marry 4 times and a pure Sexual desire could very well be a reason and he will not be accountable for that act on the day of judgment.
Only thing he is accountable for if he did not treat all the wives equally.
Mind it, I am not saying that if he did not keep all the wives happy, cause that is not possible.
Its an equal treatment that is required