30 year old Pakistani women

[Captain_Obvious]

Re: 30 year old Pakistani women

@PyariCgudia

And that’s why 20 yr old girls get picked over older women, because the perception is the 20 yr old will deliver parathas and ample sex, when that might not be the case. That 20 year old may be difficult to emotionally connect to, and she may not be interested in making you bread, rather she might be more interested in spending your money irresponsibly because she’s never held a job or had any responsibilities, and she might not have enough wordly experience to teach your kids the right things. I see this in older couples where they get the girl from Pakistan, and she’s young and inexperienced in the world, and then they get annoyed when the girl becomes a mom and has issues raising her kids with the values the guy expects.

You’re marrying a human, not a baby maker, or a paratha-maker. I’m pretty sure they make machines for that now.

I myself married a 20 year old (though I was younger than 30 at the time). Anyhow, none of what you said applied in our case. We connected very well emotionally, she would happily cook for me and has always been careful about spending money. Though I wouldn’t have minded if she had a little work experience, but it would be for own satisfaction rather than my depending on her to pitch in for our expenses. So what you’ve said about 20 year olds, sure some of it may apply to some cases, but it’s definitely not universal.

Still, the question was what can a 30 year old woman offer a 30 year old man that he couldn’t get from a 20 year old that he doesn’t know any better than said 30 year old?