30 year old Pakistani women

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Re: 30 year old Pakistani women

@justbilli

This entire thread is making me laugh. Has it ever occurred to some of you that it’s not that 30+ can’t get married, it’s just that we don’t want to be married to you?

I am educated, successful, come from a respected and established family, blah blah blah. All the things that make me a desirable catch. I am 34 and just got engaged now. Now. Why now? Not because I didn’t get rishtas, not because I was too busy in my school books and career, not because of anything really. I just didn’t meet anyone who I thought was good enough for me. My family’s is really synced in with other Pakistani families, there were always plenty of boys around to chose from.

To be clear, I don’t think I am anyone special. Truly. The description myself are just facts. I wasn’t impressed by the Pakistani guys around me and my family. Some were educated but unattractive, some attractive but idiots, others came from good families but had insane views on life and behaved like morons in public. My parents weren’t worried about me meeting anyone. They just told me when it was in my kismet it would happen and then it did.

Met a Pakistani guy while I was on vacation with a few of my other single 30+ female friends. Got to know him over two years and finally said yes. There was no pressure or rush. In fact, my father wanted me to take my time so that I picked the right partner.

I don’t know who these people are who still are hung up on 30 something women vs 20 something women, I am just glad I am not marrying them.

This!!!
Ek sher yad arha hy wese
Khud hi ko kr buland itna ke har taqdeer se pehle…
Khuda banday se khud poochy, bta teri razaa kiya hy!!