30 year old Pakistani women

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Re: 30 year old Pakistani women

@ekumunng

PCG, you need fresh perspective into this situation. I’ve observed in this thread that you have focused too much on the preferences of other people which should not be your concern at all. How and why people married to their spouses and based on what factors, is not your issue. Your life depends on your actions not what others do or have done. You are being judgemental and it is certainly not helping your cause.

You should focus more on your good qualities and attributes that may help you and your future partner in your lives as a couple and family. Make sure that any potential proposal is able to find your good qualities and he is able to see that you will be a great addition to his life, do the same on your side. The age issue will become irrelevant once the mutual benefits are identified.

There is no logic in this if the community as a whole has used an age cut-off to clear the “first pass” of applications for marriage to their sons. You’re not going to get to know any nice characteristics of any women your age, if you’re not willing to even consider them for marriage because of an age requirement.