Re: 2nd Wife
For guys, would you want to have more than 1 wife? why?
am married and right now there is no way i'm thinking of a second wife....For ladies, would you accept your husband having a 2nd wife? ad would you accept bieng the 2nd wife?
am a man so cant answer this, but my wife hates the idea of sharing her husband....What are the reasons that may lead the guy to consider a 2nd wife?
first wife not very considerate, he develops a liking for another woman, trying to give protection to a widow or a poor girl,How would that affect his current family??
i know people who have more than one wife and the families r not much affected....If a man to marry another women, would that normally lead to the divorce of the 1st wife??
depends on the first wife....If a man to marry another women, should he tell his wife before doing that? or after? (some men say a women would never accept that, so better tell her later on)
he shud tell her first (my opinion), but Islam does not require him to tell the first wife....Do you know any guys who married more than 1 wife? how did it go after marrying the 2nd?? share stories...
i know one pakistani and 2 bahraini guys who have more than one wife....the paksitani: he married, had kids with the first wife.... then his cousin got divorced and her married her too so that she wud not be alone.... then later on in his life, both his wives stopped caring for him and sometimes did not even talk to him, so he married a third....
this bahraini guy happens to be a shia friend of mine.... he was in love with a girl and his parents wanted him to marry someone else, so he ended up marrying both.... then some years back he fell in love with an egyptian lady and married her as well.... have not met him for some time so dont know if he has added to his list or not....
this bahraini guy happens to be a sunni colleague of mine.... happily married with kids.... and then he ends up marrying his wife's close friend.... is living a trouble-free life....
also i met in an umrah trip a man who has 2 wives.... his mother complained too much of his first wife not looking after her, and the wife and mother did not go along well....so he married another one hoping she'll live happily with his mother....