You already know it’s important for you and your guy to tell each other “I love you” — as often as possible. But you shouldn’t depend on those three little words to let your one-and-only know what’s in your heart. In fact, nonverbal displays of affection are often a better way to get through to the man in your life.
“Guys tend to be action-oriented, so they feel less comfortable using words to express emotions,” says REDBOOK Love Network expert and psychiatrist Scott Haltzman, M.D., author of The Secrets of Happily Married Men. “They’ve seen enough Tom Hanks movies to know they’re supposed to always say ‘I love you,’ but they’re not sure that words alone convey how they feel.”
Ready to let what you do speak louder than what you say? We asked REDBOOK readers and the men in their lives to share some sweet ideas. Plus, we added in some expert tips on how to give your love a boost without uttering a word.
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thats y the white ppl have been blessed so much as they take good care of their wives !!
I hope you are not being sarcastic because its actually true. From what I have seen white guys do actually take good care of their wives, a lot more than desi men I have seen. I know of at least four girls who married white guys and I am sure they are not perfect but they do take care of their wives A LOT more than the desi husbands.
I hope you are not being sarcastic because its actually true. From what I have seen white guys do actually take good care of their wives, a lot more than desi men I have seen. I know of at least four girls who married white guys and I am sure they are not perfect but they do take care of their wives A LOT more than the desi husbands.
And all those news you see in media about abused wives are all old wives tales ?
The white or desi guys all are not bad and all are not good. But there is more good in both races than bad.
Please stop stereotyping , I expect better from well educated and wiser than average joe, GS members.
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Maybe there are thoughtful and sensitive Pakistani husbands who pay attention to little details out there, I just don't know of any. On the other hand the white guys that I know always do sweet little things for their wives and are always doing thing to make them happy. And don't get me wrong, I am not saying that all Pakistani husbands are bad or that they don't love their wives, they do, just in a different way.
How many guys do you know of who write sweet messages to their wives on the bathroom mirror? Or write their wives love notes?
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^ No. You need to bring the moon and the stars and then write I love you with those. And somewhere in there spill some of your blood. MAYBE just MAYBE then us women will be satisfied :p
Maybe there are thoughtful and sensitive Pakistani husbands who pay attention to little details out there, I just don't know of any. On the other hand the white guys that I know always do sweet little things for their wives and are always doing thing to make them happy. And don't get me wrong, I am not saying that all Pakistani husbands are bad or that they don't love their wives, they do, just in a different way.
*How many guys do you know of who write sweet messages to their wives on the bathroom mirror? Or write their wives love notes? *
Trust me there are many, many of them. I am sorry that you do not run into nice Pakistani families.
The line in red is an exception not a norm. The article was written to tell others that there are many creative ways of saying I love you , without saying it. It was not meant to bash any race , culture , religion or creed.
Why you have to turn each relationship thread into Pakistani husband bashing thread ?
And all those news you see in media about abused wives are all old wives tales ?
The white or desi guys all are not bad and all are not good. But there is more good in both races than bad.
Please stop stereotyping , I expect better from well educated and wiser than average joe, GS members.
i hope u realise there are more tales of abuse frm the muslim world
i hope u realise there are more tales of abuse frm the muslim world
more tales of abuse from muslim world...true enough...but tale nevertheless...
more reality of abuse from the western world...true enough...but reality nevertheless...
accept wht? that not even God can satisfy them n their greedy nature. no matter how much u give them..they always want more. they are like blackhole...no end in sight.
more tales of abuse from muslim world...true enough...but tale nevertheless...
more reality of abuse from the western world...true enough...but reality nevertheless...
so ur gonna deny every female circumcision,acid throwing,gang rape ordered by elders,8 year old girl marrying 60 yrs old,honour killing n the list goes on.this is exatly wats happening in lots of muslim countries n u know wat the sad part is these women do not get justice.atleast in the western world u have hope that u can sue someone
so ur gonna deny every female circumcision,acid throwing,gang rape ordered by elders,8 year old girl marrying 60 yrs old,honour killing n the list goes on.this is exatly wats happening in lots of muslim countries n u know wat the sad part is these women do not get justice.atleast in the western world u have hope that u can sue someone
sure enough its happening in every muslim nation and is happening bcos governments don't do anything to stop it. the same governments which are there bcos western countries want them to be in power. no? look @ saudia. kingdom is there bcos US want them to rule those ppl with rules and policies no matter how barbaric they are. sure ppl can rebel against them but who will come to their help/aid. however i'm positive US will def bomb the hell out of them and then will label each of them as suspected terrorists. there goes your hope of sueing someone. as the saying goes...dead men tell no tales.
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