Re: 2011 Brides
AHH!! I must be one of the few brides left getting married this year?!? It's gone very silent in here- for a good reason- too much hubby and wifey time is never a bad thing! lol
I am now 7.5 weeks away from getting married....and I must be the most brain dead out bride- cus for some reason I don;t care enough!! I left my bridal outfit for my fiance to get in Khi, I'm going completely blind on the mendi dress too and yet not freaking out if they mess it up? Maybe I'll cry when I see them? :S lol
Problems:
Argh and one thing im sick of hearing is, cmon girl get on a diet go to the gym lose some weight! I'm like hey, you know what I may be large- but he sed yes to marrying me for who I am! haha
Though, itd be nice to magically loose some weight! a double chin in pictures is just totally gross! But deal with what i got right? lol I have the most terrible acne which I;ve never experienced before, diet is bad, dehydrated and not sleeping heavily anymore :(. It's like a mix of anticipation and fear, am I gona be the one bride to mess it all up? Will I do something like trip? What if the guests hate the wedding and think its too simple? then i try and think...WHY DO I CARE? loll Then I turn completely the opposite and act like i dont acre im even getting married and pretend I'm not secretly worrying!
No MUA for me! My fiance told me he had always dreamt his wife wud do her own makeup for the wedding, so that she'd still look like the woman he intended to marry - lol- so ive been cramming as many youtube vids in my head about foundation, contouring, eyeshadows and on and on! And what ends up happening? my skin looks terrible with makeup on! soo many tiny little bumps! my skin is ultra dehydrated! why o whyyyy?!?!?
Havent got anyone to set my dupatta, hair or anything!
Still have to put deposits down for the vid and photographrs!
Haven't organised bouquet!
still havent chosen my wedding rings!
still havent recieved sis and mums dresses!
Havent organised bros clothes!
Wedding invites have yet to be printed and given out!
Haven't organised mendi stage !
Havent organised mendi girls!
havent organised mendi songs!
AAAAAH!
My mums so aweet and gullable sometimes I wonder how to stop her giving invites to everyone! One second you see people don't care you the bride even exist before they know you're getting married, and then when they hear it they're dyyyying to come to the wedding/mendi and giving me the most attention I've ever experienced!! How do I explain I have a guest limit?? AAAH! ~
Positives
Ive only just started telling friends im getting married and don;t you jsut love the way they scream when they find out?? lol my goodness I had 15 girls clambering all over each other, trying to find out who the guy was how we met and how he looked! They all expected me to be the last one to get married- ahaha was a great experience seeing their faces!
Ive got the wedding fully catered, so all I have to do is show up! Mendi hall booked, just went to food tasting for a caterer my goodness they gave me such a good price alhumdullilah i just pray the food is as nice on the wedding day and mendi as it was when i tasted it! ahhh!
Ill be getting the dresses mid Oct so I have some time to alter them if they fit badly!
I;m marrying the man I love and who loves me passionately!
Both my parents are calm whilst I handle and take care of things :)
Wish me luck! Please Please let me know whether I;m missing anything out!!!
Not many days left now, nerves kickin’ in a little! But inshAllah all will be fine I hope 