thanks hun! the engagement is on April 4th InshAllah..i have plenty of time left its not the time limit which is stressing me out..i placed my order wayyy back in early November of last year..the least i can expect is for him to have started making my dress!! the worst thing is a couple days back he told my Mum that it would be finished in a few days..and now he’s saying he hasn’t even started it! I fully intend to do what you’ve suggested if he hasnt started it by the time i get there..which is this saturday! he better get moving or i’ll just take my custom elsewhere..grrr