2010 brides.........

[Bride2010]

@proudpakistani007

wonderful thread…

I am getting married in july.. Alhamdullillah just booked the hall.. But still i got alot more to go…

1. How will i find decent stage docoration for the wedding? i dont know where to look for elegant sofa to put it on stage and arrange backdrops, and other floral arrangement. I live in allentown, PA and i am a horrible searcher i havent talk to any caterer yet.

2. How will i look on my wedding day. I am chubby and have a stomach for the last many many years.. No gym works on me because i easily lose motivation.. I am gonna look horrible. My parents are motivating me everyday to stop eating chawal roti n sweets but i cant stop on top of that my fiance is thin he also gives me advice how to lose weight fast. That means he also think i am tooo fat for him

3. how will i get wedding and reception jora from pakistan or here in usa.. its soo expensive.. We told larkay walay that we will get both jora but how will i tell khala what i really like.. She will go to tariq road and shop around to see if she can find something different and unique that suits me as well

4. My fiance is soon to be a doctor but right now he is yet to start his residency. He may get residency this year or next, i will have tough time as his halaat are tight at the moment and he is already expecting me to work after marriage. I will work but that was something i wanted to do for myself but now i will have to support him. Which is great but i dont know. How will i find a decent job in New york city that pays me decent.

5. He is a very very nice guy but very innocent. He shares everything to his mom and sisters and i am scared that my words with him might not be shared with my inlaws.. How will he treat me.. will he love me? he doesnt love me now because he is a busy guy and doing rotation. I asked him yesterday about having feelings? and he says sometimes we doctors have alot of stress going on and that takes away sweet corner in their heart. I know he is having rough time because he is busy in taking board examinations and he is studying for his 3rd step USMLE and waiting to get results for USMLE 2nd part. On top of that he is doing rotation, then his wedding, he may not get residency because he is on chance, plus the wedding and the responsibility without having any job.. arghhhhh

6. Will my mother inlaw love me??? she is a different women and i like her.. But i dont know. I think she already has alot of expectation from me. Many times we do certain things that isnt appretiated by our inlaws and since some people have murawat, inlaws dont say it and keep it inside. I dont want that.. i want them to love me but i am scared.

7. I am thinking about fiance, my father is spending alot of money on my wedding. My mom got me 7 gold set worth over 10,000 USD, then she made over 100 new dresses to give on jahaiz. She is getting me all the houseware stuffs so that my hubby dont have alot of initial kharcha for starting a family. Plus she is looking for bedroom set and other appliances. Plus wedding itself cost alot.. we gonna have 350 people on my wedding and abu booked a hotel.. that is very expensive.. I am scared how he is gonna manage all that..

on top of that i have to loseeeeeeeeee alot of weight…

first of all congratz on ur wedding… I have a few things I want to understand why are ur fiance getting married now if he doesnt either have the time or money? And I really dont understand why ur parents are paying for all this stuff isnt its ur fiances job to buy bedroom sets and all the other household stuff?
In my family the girls doesnt bring much to her new family only gifts its the boys job to provide everything for her the clothes the jewelry household stuff etc.