Ahhhh so that is what was happening! I have been wondering where my reply from Piyari was!!! U know... meri mangni bi jaldi hoye thi but I would not change anything about it either. My fiance is really happy that I was taken by such surprise and to me it is a wonderful feeling knowing that he was ready to take this step...without parental initiative! So jaldi hogaye... but koi baat naheen :D
InshAllah your shaadi will be wonderfulllll and live upto everyone's expectations. And I'm sure it will because the most important element is definitely going to be present at yours..... everyone's luv and support. Shaadi family mein hori hai... thats why :) 2 of my first cousins are engaged right now and all of us realllyyyyy can't wait for their shaadi. We are so happy and excited. We are a super tight knit family so we know that no matter what... its going to be enjoyable. Its just going to be amazing for all of us to be together for that event as well u know?? I'm sure your family feels the same way...
And Duffy - YOURS AS WELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D
Yaar I have no concept of UK sizes ...except that they are more normal than US sizes. My US size is a 00 if u can believe it. :( Yikes.
Piyari - U are moving from UK to Lahore after shaadi??? U know, my mamani did that. She and my mamu are cousins so she had no problem adjusting at all even tho she did not grow up visiting Lahore that much. Having a luving atmosphere is the MOST important thing of comfort she has told me (I luv her to pieces). I go to Lahore quite often myself! So every 2 years or so I go back to visit. I luv it there. You are definitely going to have to keep me updated on all of your shopping. When you are there- keep a list of all your recommendations Piyari!! It will help future brides like me with our Lahori shopping! :D My family lives in Faisal Town and my own parents are building a house in Defense right now!!! So that when we go back we will have our own place to stay :D
Are you getting your jewelery all made in Pakistan??? If so- u are going to have to let me know which jeweler u got it from in Lahore. My mom is scared about this process because she says there are so many irreputable jewelers trying to rip off their customers now a days. U don't know who to trust. So keep me posted. Getting a set made with ruby's was smart piyaari... its true... u know u want to wear red for baraat so why not get it made???
InshAllah I hope all three of us find out our shaadi dates soon! From what I can tell from our posts... all of us are in the same situation where we are waiting for another family member's shaadi to take place and then ours will be decided afterwards. Looks like we all have fun functions to attend in the near future tho :D Have u girls gotten your kapray tayaar for these upcoming festivities????
I also just want to add that u girls r very lucky that u know your MIL's and have a wonderful and luving long-standing relationship with her. I pray that it always remains like this. Ameen. Please pray for me ... I am marrying outside of the family and although my MIL is very kind and luving towards me now..... I hope this never changes. I still have not spent too much time with her tho u know?
Heeey, awww so sorry for the lateness meri jaan actually we look after my newphew while my bhabi n brother work and he's constantly with me..and esp if I have the PC on then he wants to play and wont let me touch the keyboard hes only just turned 3 by the way and knows how the computer works and my phone.
InshaAllah all our weddings mine, urs and duffy's weddings will go beautifully and as expected..Ameen
wooow ur a size 00..I think ur like a size4 over here..I think I used to be a 6 but it seems like ever since I got engaged I put some weight on..my friend calls it happy fat lol..
Yup moving to Lahore from UK after shaadi eeeekkk..ur right aslong as there is a loving atmosphere it should go well...and my ilaws have showed me nothing but love even before I got engaged :) and I hope it stays that way!!InshaAllah and thanks for giving me a positive story it made me feel better about moving there..its a big step and I hope it goes ok..please dua karna..im abit nervous about moving there eeekkk
Actually my inlaws used to live in Fasian Town too I do like it there...and u guys are building in Defence right now that is fab...InshaAllah when ur in Lahore we defently need to meet..that would be great...After shaadi will u b staying the US?ur from the US right? Is it easy finding pakistani clothe shops over there?
For the jewelrry Im just making 1 set the shaadi set,necklace,earrings..ring..and tikka the rest I already got made..like the churiya from here..my mum thought it was best bcoz number 1 it would be 1 more less thing i would need to worry about when I go there..and plus there have been quite a few people that have told us that they put copper or something in the churiya now..so my mum was like ok lets get them made here at our local jewlelers...But when I get my shaadi set and walima set Ill let you know what there like n soo on..Im going to keep a booklet with me when I go shopping for you guys so i dont forget!!!
For the up coming event my in laws are getting them made there going to be co ordinated with my nands..mendhi-anar kali dress shaadi - sharara walima pant/kameez
Thank you so much for your prayers meri jaan..that is so thoughtful and nice of you I hope that Allah blesses you with a most loving and caring MIL and that you get along with her..Ameen I always try to make an effort to find out what my MIL's interests are and always send her cute text messages..and gifts any time someone goes not like massively expensive gifts there like small things that she actually needs..like she loves olay day and night creme so I always send here them once in a while...